So, you want to meet the right person but are clueless and have no frame of reference. Where do you begin and how to proceed? This humorous and simply explained guide will take you through the processes of what types are out there, where to begin looking, and even what you need to do before you begin the search for your perfect mate
Why do you need a partner?
Companionship, helpmate , emotional thing or not to appear to be the biggest loser on the block but pay attention and get a better grasp or handle on why you want one of us that’s right in your life. Make sure as this chapter says Don’t be a butt head! Read it to comprehend. Now let’s get down to brass tacks: these are how he classifies us of course not me: here are those to avoid: needy, greedy and seedy. Needy the least worrisome he claims but he claims most are that leaves me out. He gives examples and greedy as he describes her, and her lifestyle wants and needs. Seedy women you guys can find wandering the streets of town. Her manner of dress is slob or like a hooker claiming she might use drugs or booze. What about the ordinary girl or exceptional woman look for do exist? But to learn where you might stand read the book!
The next chapter deals with physical types as most men want a hit babe or some might like the author say your woman might be his nightmare. Read the rest to learn more. Where to look?
Singles bars are good places to find the needy and the greedy. That might develop into a serious problem. There are those you met in the gym that might be friendly and chatty but don’t hit on her while she is doing squats. You can borrow a dog from a friend and might meet someone, work is a good place, clubs vary or make friends with women they might introduces you to a friend. He relates other places, but you might think before you choose one of them. Computer dating if all else fails and what about introductions or just real the chapter. Dating younger or older women, the first date is next followed by a major decision: Relationship or dating. This might trigger what happens on date three and where you end up having sone intimate fun. Dating is straightforward but relationships can sneak up on you as he states like that butt gut that surprises you when you cannot button you pants. Read the rest before decision which you prefer. Do you want an exclusive relationship is discussed next and then introducing her to your people that can lead to problems? What happens when you break up? What happens when you realize that you have two ex-=girlfriendhood will probably become friends due to having a mutual interesting in making your life murderable thing before you introduce her. Think first speak after is followed by speaking less I smore. Then this is hard don’t Lile but don’t be too honest! You never outright lie to a woman and if you do lie you have to remember the lasso that you don’t contradict yourself, . also lies then to compound like the interest you pay on loans. The most common thing s man might say to a woman is You are Beautiful. That’s never a life but every woman is more beautify that that toothless hag who asked you for the spare change. He goes deeper into it stating that beautiful women like to be told that they are funny, smart and interesting. Stating maybe right them on the inside of you ran they might come in handy and showing her off to your friends can be interpreted that you have a great catch.
Games people pay are need one that is dangerous is one =upmanship because you der fellow will unlikely win. It happens his states dieting a disagreement which become an argument and unless you heed to his advice you might have an all-out fight. This chapter teaches you what not to say, not do to and introduces the money game. Next he focuses on personal hygiene followed by something all us girls love gifts. What kind of gifts, how expensive and for what occasion? Arguments, food and giving us a choice between cooking and going out what do you think where she’ll choose? He states we are trainable if you get used to dinner out of course on Friday she will expect it celery friends. In the real world you will probably eat at a home most of the item. Some even expect us to good if we or the person becomes housewife. You need the extra income so the job selling makeup in a department store as his example satisfies her needs. Next who shops? In my world we both do at the same time. Dinners that are romantic do not need to be expensive. Go to a store that sells fancy food and pick up a selection of appetizer and place them in various and partially hidden spots around the house. With each one includes a short romantic note. The rest follow when you read it. Humor and Humility are discussed next followed by sex, religion, hobbies and pets. Your relationship on alcohol but my favorite is coffee or tea and since I love coffee you know which one wins. If you are like me a coffee drinker, the early morning mindless chatter and silly decisions of the tea drinker will drive you up a wall. If you are a tea drinker the coffee drinker will seem an obsessive maniac. . Try and avoid each other until each one has their morning drink. Meat or Veggies and does she have kids? This is where it can get tricky
Decisions must be made and this one should not be taken lightly as you decide if you are going to move into together. Some aspects are practically, and others might create discord. Where will you move: hers or yours> How do you divide up the space and where you will put her stuff or yours? The final chapter get serious: Moving in together, the wedding, vacations maybe separate might be the answer, kids or no kids and if you have them you must raise them and remember they were babies first. I love the chapter on small and little notes. Everyone loves to read something sweet, short and cute to tell us how you feel about us but make sure it’s true. The hard part is you in it for the long hall, how does thigs person look after years of marriage how to keep the flame lit and more. This is the author’s advice and helpful way of having someone in your life but if it does not work for you and your area without a good woman he states: Remember that breweries are open about every week, and you can try to sample them you might be too busy to realize you are still unattached. Honest, straightforward, filled with humor, sarcasm and tons of advice that just might help you avoid being clueless and after reading the Clueless Guy’s Guide to love and beyond you just might strike a positive chord with the female population. Happy Hunting. Author Meade Fischer hits high notes his humorous guide.
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